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*ettles
writes:I am starting to think that I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend. We have been together for over a year and lately it seems that everything he does irritates me, even his breathing. I am insecure about his ex as he still has a picture of her on his phone (the second new one he has got since we've been together) and he doesn't seem to understand my insecurity. Any time I try to talk to him he sits quietly and says he's "thinking" yet never has any comments or thoughts. Is this just a bad patch or should I consider ending it? I don't think I want to end it but I'm not entirely happy.
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reader, nettles +, writes (18 June 2008):
nettles is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks but I think I was just stressing about things as I am having problems finding work and with my parents.We had a bit of a chat and he was really considerate and caring and things are back on track now :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): If somebody's BREATHING irritates you, then as far as i'm concerned, you don't need to be together xD
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reader, Uncle Sneaker +, writes (14 June 2008):
 It's difficult to give an opinion you from the limited information you've given, but it sounds to me like you've already made up your mind that it's not working.
If you aren't absolutely sure, then instead of trying to talk to him quietly (you've tried that, you say, without success) why don't you blurt it out: "I don't think our relationship is working. I think we should end it. Do you think we should talk about it." He really can't ignore that.
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