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writes:I need a girl and a boy's view on this and sorry its kinda long...Well im 14 and i've known this boy whos 15 and is in the year above at school for about 9 years and for about 2 of those years i've fancied him (still do) Well we used to be really good friends for about 8 years. When I started high school he kept staring at me like crazy and I admit after a while I did the same. We would talk but mostly kinda stare as we passed in the corridors. Quite a few times we would suddenly stop and smile and kinda look in to each other's eyes for a few seconds. I really started to think that he liked me.In August we went on this trip to the Isle of Arran with the Geography department. On the ferry there I was just talking to one of my friends and she told me that he was looking at me. I turned round and he was. He saw that I caught him, turned pink then acted like nothing had happened.When we walked past each other at the place where we were staying he smiled and gave me this weird stare. Then the next again day I was going to get something from me and my friends dorm room and he was putting his bag in. He was in front so he typed in the code to get into the building. He tried to shut me out the building but I pulled the handle before he could. We stood there for about 1-2 minutes looking in to each others eyes (longer than we did before) until he realised his bag was caught on the door. The whole trip we couldn't keep our eyes off each other. We talked half of the time and I started to struggle a bit with hiding my feelings for him although with 3 of my friends plus one of the geography teachers winding me up. I could see why.After the trip 2 of my friends told him how I felt and he started to ignore me. I tried talking to him normaly like we did before at school, on msn, on skype and on bebo. He blocked me on msn and completly ignored me on bebo and at school. It really started to hurt. A simple hello was ignored.I didn't get his skype until quite recently and when I did I finaly gave in to the pain and confusion and aksed him why he was ignoring me. He was still ignoring me so I insulted him. I took a guilt trip and apologised to him the next day on skype then at school my close friend (*Emma who didnt go on the trip) who is in his year said to him at break that I was really sorry about everything. By this point i started to become to nervous and panicy to try talking to him in person.He told her that he was annoyed with me. Then despite me telling her not to, another friend (*Danni) asked him out with me at the end of break luckly *Emma was there and told him that I didnt want to ask him out as it would make things worse. He told her thats good because he would have said no. He would and will say no.I've tried telling him that I just want to be friends but he didnt listen.I love him that much it hurts. I'm confused though. Did he like me or not?Why did he ignore me in the first place?Help!!!!!
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reader, layla26 +, writes (29 January 2011):
Dear girl i dont think is you,and you are not the only one i hade a friand a boy verry liked hem and i thoth he did,i use to get compliment from hem, and i use to dress up for hes atesion but wen one of my friands tolled hem he had an admire he asked who,and when he found out he start to act that he cared, he never was close to me like that and when my friand asked hem he said he will love to buy is complicated after that i neve seen hem, it hurts but it was a fair verrry stuip rejection i will advice you next time you see hem,pretend you on the phone with one of pretend latino boy friand and jest make your day is exiting,is beter to see you like diva if is true boys the like someone hard to get
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reader, imheretohelp +, writes (21 September 2010):
 hi there :)
ok.. i totally understand your situation!
I think this boy is confused. The whole trip, a lot of things were going on in his and your minds. I think its got a bit too much for this guy and hes just taking a step back for now! :)
things will look up
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reader, LouLee +, writes (14 June 2008):
 That is really odd, is there anything you could've done to upset him?
By what you've said, it sounds like he's lost interest either because you haven't made a move and he thinks you dont like him or he knows you like him and doesn't like you that way back---- or does like you that way back but doesn't want a relationship.
I really don't know but that's my point of view.
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reader, DANCE*BABY  +, writes (14 June 2008):
hey
I completely understand how it feels,... but do you hounestly want to be in love with a man who is so senceless to see what is happening right in front of him? You were giveing signs you liked him. You have to realize thow , you cant make some one like you, and if he is annoyed, he may come around,but really i think you should waite it out and find a guy that truly loves you for you who no matter what you did he would never be annoyed with you! And girl 4 real you seem way better then that ass hole~
take my advice you will see the lucky man will apear suddenly
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