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30-35,
anonymous
writes:How do I know if a guy is using me to get to know my sister? This 'friend' and I never really talk or text, and we've only hung out once. He has the same class as my younger sister, and always teases her. He doesn't really tease me, or talk, or hang out. I suspect I might be the one who says that we're 'friends'. Lately, however, he's been texting me, but our conversations usually end op talking about my sister. And today he asked if I could give him her number, which, being myself, I did. Jealously, extremely jealously though. ((I kind of like the guy)). Is he using me to get to know her? Am I just being selfish and jealous? Or am I being 'royally ignored'? (My sister is two years younger than him, and he and j are both the same age)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 April 2013):
 yep you are clearly the gateway to your sister
and two years is not a big deal age wise.
you gave him her number.. now he's done with you.
I'm sorry.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (10 April 2013):
 Hi, he is interested in your sister. I am afraid you need to get over this crush or it will ruin your relationship with your sister if they become BF and GF.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (10 April 2013):
 Yea he’s definitely using u as a shoe in. This guys a wuss that he didn’t ask her number. I wouldn’t get too riled up. Tell him you won’t be used and you find his behavior not cool. Don’t tell him u like him quite honestly that’s irrelevant. Tell him to get rid of her number and warn your sister a harassing guy might call her.
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