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writes: Alright, here it goes. So on New Years there was this guy. All night his friends were coming up to me and asking me to go talk to him saying he was interested, then at midnight we kissed and he also kissed me goodbye. He is extremely EXTREMELY shy.Now school has started up again, and he doesn't even look at me. He doesn't talk to me or anything. We never really talked alot before new years anyways, but i expected to talk at least a bit. I haven't heard anything either. My one friend said that I should go for it... that he got the impression new years guy really liked me but i don't know whether i should or not. I feel like he avoids looking at me...and you also have to keep in mind that he is extremely EXTREMELY shy...i'm pretty sure i was his first kiss. Is he too shy to talk to me ... or just not interested...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): I'd guess he is just too shy - it is definitely likely that he would do that if he liked you and was a really shy guy. For example, I am ridiculously shy, and even when I was dating my girlfriend who i loved, I stopped talking to her (NEVER started a conversation with her, completed ignored her at time), but I did ring her a bit, because I was too shy.
So yeah if he is shy he could easily like you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2006): Dear questioner,
Do please make a move. Shyness is a disabling personality trait, which can make your life a misery. For boys its sometimes more difficult because there is always the expectation on them to make the first move, I suspect he's in agony, he doesn't have a clue if the New Years kiss was just one of those spontanious things (because it was New Year), or because you menat it.
Take him by the hand get him away from everyone else and talk to him, he might be tongue tied and blush, but once you've walked him round the block a few times he'll relax and the inner-person will emerge.
Rescue him from shyness hell!
best wishes,
Another shy boy
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2006): Go for it-what have you got to loose? Even if you get rejected at least you know where you stand.I think he is just shy. If he kissed you and everyone says he likes you, then there is a pretty good chance that he does.If he is in-experienced in the relationship department, the chances are that the reason he is avoiding looking at you is because he doesn't know how to bring up the subject of what happened should he ever catch your eye. Why don't you make the first move? Go over to him and start a conversation not about New Years, but about something fairly mundane like what you're doing in school etc. Then if it goes well gently bring up New Years and see how he reacts. If he goes red and starts stuttering, it probably means he wants to take it futher but is too shy to admit it so suggest that you'd like to meet up again sometime after school. If he says I'm sorry it was a mistake, just try to accept it but stay friends and who knows what might happen in the future...
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