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writes: Hi , please help! This guy is messing with my mind!!Ok here's the story!I met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we talked for a bit and then he asked me for my number! He texted me and we've been chatting on msn all week , it was going really well and he even said he was starting to like me and said we should meet up for a picnic or summat some time.. Anyways I'm normally really careful because guys are often idiots and let you down as i know, but it all seemed really genuine and when he said he'd text me he did and when we talked online we talked for hours at a time! But then on friday he was going to a party , and he said he would text me like the next day or something , and then we'd speak on msn on the weekend . So the weekends over and nothing! no text and he didnt come online.. so i text him and was like "hi , how are you etc" but no answer so then a couple of days later i text him again , i wish i hadnt now but i did , and i said are u ignoring me? coz if u are jst tell me.. and still nothing which seemed reli strange. So then yesterday i tried to ring him twice but he didnt pick up and after 4 rings the answering machine came on.Im starting to worry , because its not like him and i hope nothing has happened to him. I cant check with his mates coz i dont no any of them , and he doesnt live in my town. At the same time I'm thinking maybe he's met some other girl? I just dont know ! And i dont know if i should text him again or ring or email or what, because we are not going out and i dont want to seem like im some weirdo pestering him , but i just wana hear from him , even if its to tell me to piss off !!! Please help im soooooo confused!!!thanks
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reader, tats +, writes (9 January 2008):
tats is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi! thanks very much for the advice, I did ignore him and eventually he came up with this lame excuse which turn out not to be true anyway. So basically he is a loser and he was never worth my time, but hey ce la vie there are plenty more fish in the see !
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Adding to the already good advice (don't call or text or contact him in anyway), don't sit around and wait for him to contact you, move on. Something obviously got in the way of your brief relationship and his head isn't in it right now, sorry to say. It's too bad that he doesn't just be honest with you but this unfortunately is typical behavior of people (men and women) who don't want to hurt people or of people who are confused themelves.
At any rate, his silent message is saying he is not interested.
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reader, dy  +, writes (22 November 2007):
Hi Dear,That must be a horrible feeling! I suggest you stop calling him for like a week or so, before you use another stranger's number to call.But do remember hard that this is not to stalk him! More to make sure that he's fine and safe. Afterwhich, if he answers, maybe you can just tell him you were just worried about his well being. Carried on with "I didnt know you were such a jerk. At least, the chapter is closed! GOOD BYE!"I'm not trying to mean. Come on, if he's really fine and safe, why isnt he replying your msges? Does he enjoy putting people in such situation, letting them suspend in the air? Since you guys have never really started, maybe its time you take time out and go have fun with your girlfriends! You'll be surprise who might come into yourlife! Take care sweetie.
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reader, sweet and sassy  +, writes (22 November 2007):
hey honey, just want to ask how old are you? but anyway DONT txt him again! or call him. He's being a typical guy and you deseve better! i dont think anything will of happend to him cos his fones stil charged up an if sumthing bad had happend i think the last thing on his familys mind wud b to charge his fone up then ignore his calls. i think maybe he did sumthing at the party with a girl... now maybe feels pretti shity towards you but no-one will know till he gets in-touch. just wait for him to get in-touch with you. you really dont want to seem desprate. good luck sweetie xx sands xx
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