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writes:My husband wants me to talk dirty. I try sometimes but not often. I dont know how. anyone have any tips? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (23 January 2008):
 what you got to remember is that talking dirty is just between you and your guy. sure you might not use that language in public, but you are behind closed doors and you should let your hair down and feel free to say anything to turn up the excitement. I love talking dirty during sex. You wont go wrong if every other word is the F word....tell him how big his dick is(all guys love this) and how you love him F-ing you. tell him how good it feels when he's going in you (insert F word) Tell him to do you harder and push him real hard to give it to you...(again insert F word) Dont use the clinical terms for you body parts(penis, vagina) And dont call it sex....use the F word...lol I think you get what Im saying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): according to me talking dirty to women will bring spark in ur sex life...trust me.....talk as much dirty as u can....be free....tell him what want
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 a few one/two worders that ALWAYS go down well...
HARDER!!
OH GOD!!!
YES!!!
F**K ME!!!
And there's always just telling him what you want him to do, in a descriptive manner, ie, "lick my pussy..." and then followed by that word that I love to hear.... NOW!!!
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reader, TheresaUNIQUEbebe +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Think of what he likes or rent porno's on your own time watch them and everything used in the porn. Repeat it like a role play but your leading, since he whats a bad girls and they do what they want and do it with all their might.So if she is on the bed in the porn and he is spanking her...I would say:Yes spank me master, you know I love it ahh just keep givin me that thick awww ((LOUDER))YES YES I WANT IT...DONT STOP BABE AHHH YOU FEEL SO GOOD..see how exciting that was, feel a little warmth, I know im good hahah jp no I took physiology 101 and learned how to communicate as well as understand what it is that he wants, if he is more shy....HE WILL LOVE THIS but CAREFUL...TO MUCH EXCITMENT WILL CAUSE AN ERUPTIONPLS EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT MORE ADVICE..DONT FORGET, HAVE FUN AND LET EVERYTHING JUST FLOW, DONT TRY TOO HARD IT SHOWS TOO MUCH....YOU CAN EVEN ROLE PLAY IN THE BATHROOM OR IN THE SHOWERTESS
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Hi,
easy. First thing don't worry what he will think about what you say. Nothing you say will appear silly as in the bedroom it should be silly.
Tell him you love his big dick filling up your pussy.
Moan and groan when he enters you.
If something feels really good , tell him .."I love it when you ram my pussy from behind".. "I love it when you screw me senseless" "screw me!!! "eat me!". Ask him where he wants to come, pussy,mouth,boobs?
If he's not an insecure type tell him how much bigger he is than your old boyfriends, or some guys even like their girls to tell them about how big there past lovers were ( but warning, only do this if he is into it). Get it all out there, believe me he will respond.
Guys in the bedroom love corny compliments, we are a superficial race of beings, so dont hold back and dont worry about saying the wrong thing .
Now go out there girl and bonk him senseless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): Start by being vocal during sex, lots of oohs and aahs. Then when you are feeling comfortable just start telling him if you like what he's doing, what he should do now, ask if he likes stuff etc.
If your bloke is vocal just start responding to what he says- you can't go wrong that way, because he's pretty much doing all the thinking then!!
Believe me as you start getting more confident just talking during sex, you'll begin to know what to say...tell him what you want!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): I can't talk dirty to girls either, it's like a mental block.My only tip would be to tease him a bit before you fool around with him, that kinda has the same effect in my opinion.
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