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female
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anonymous
writes:*OP's original title* I have been dating this guy I met through a good friend for a month and a half. He has asked me to hang out almost every day and has invited me to spend time with his friends and has spent time with my friends. He has talked about future plans months down the road with me, and has hinted that he would like me to go home with him for his birthday in a month to meet his family. I have dated some guys in the past whose behavior I would say came off as less than genuine, but his behavior seems completely genuine. He has had two previous serious girlfriends the last of which ended about a year ago, and seems to be looking for a real relationship.The only problem is that I've discovered that he has a couple of online dating profiles that he is still logging into. This would bother me less if I thought there was going to be a future point at which we "defined the relationship" but I know because of friends that he has a stated preference for just letting things develop "naturally" rather than having that sort of conversation. He has told mutual friends that he's afraid I will break his heart, but based on past dating experience I'm afraid that this is simply an excuse and that the online dating is evidence that in spite of all the other promising behavior he isn't interested in developing any sort of long-term relationship with me. Is this guy interested or is he just not that into me? Reply to this Question
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