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Is this going anywhere, or did we hit a pothole?

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Question - (8 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *eygirl writes:

I have a long distance guy friend, and im in love with him

-we've been talking every day and night for a year and half now, but he won't ask me out, and for whatever reason i can't figure it out, but here is the catch, we had sex, just twice, and i've told him my feelings he knows i like him.

-We talked after we had sex and said that we should not do it again, but i know it will, and i don't know what to do. I think I just ruin my chance of being with him by sleeping with him.

-He won't ask me out, but we act like a couple over the phone, he would get jealous, and act like my boyfriend, and he says he cares for me, but i find it hard to believe

-Help!!! I'm so confused cus even after sleeping with him he still calls all the time, and nothing seemed to have changed. Is being friend all we'll ever be or does he want to be with me, but isn't ready...Help please...

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (8 July 2010):

RAINORFIRE agony aunthmmmm ok i have a friend in the same situation.. it seems like the guy isnt ready to commit hes keeping you on the back burner your his friend with benefits.... you might end up with this guy if you stick around... but it could be awhile...i would suggest moving on dont count on this guy wanting to be with he probably will in ten yrs but for now hes playing the field..

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