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writes:Someone please explain is this girl messing my best mates about, or actually interested in all three of them? I want to know she's not toying with them like some girls do. She's my mate also and is a really nice girl, we went to college together and during this time two of my best mates fancied her and she sort of led one of them on. Then about a year later she liked the other guy and then they got close and got with each other (made out) one night. Nothing developed from that... now less than three months later, she told one of my other friends she met this year that she likes him and he really likes her. So they are giving things a go...Is it possible that she has liked all three guys genuinely? And do you think it's bad that she has had something go on with each guy, considering that they are from the same group and all best mates. And one of our other friends fancies her, but she doesn't know.. Just i don't know what you guys will make of all this? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 July 2011):
 She doesn't seem to be hiding anything from them. I am guessing if she is a friend of yours then she is a friend off all of these three guys as well. It is possible that she has developed feelings for them all at different stages. The first guy it just sounds like it was a bit innocent and she was having fun flirting with him. The second guy well yes it does sound like she may have liked him but things didn't work out for them both. As for this third guy well if they are making a go of it then good for them I say. She is young and having a bit of fun so try not to be to worried that she is out to hurt your friends because am sure that is not the case here at all.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 I don't think there was much going on. I mean they would flirt and she may have liked each one of them but that doesn't mean head over heels for them. It is quite easy to jump from liking one person to another.
To me it sounds like she is a friend of yours and to these other guys she is just having fun and experiencing things in single life. The guys most likely know what they are getting into, it's just some people having fun with it. From the way you have described it no one seems to be getting hurt and this seems to be out in the open for them.
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