A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I used to talk to my friend, but now he is not talking to me any longer.We were friends because when we go out he tells me if I am going and I tell him that I am going and he tells that's ok...if you coming....beacuse when we go out in a group,we were the most that we talk together. When my friend is with me he do like this 1) I told him that I had mentioned him with my other friends and he told me " I think that you say many rude things about me with them", is it true?.....Every saturday my friends wants to know what I am going to wear and if I am going to do my hair.....One days we went out with other friends and I told if he didnt enjoyed this outing and my friend told me "Yes but next time I won't come becasuse I am a funny person, is it true"? I tell tell no... you're one of my best freinds.... and there is also a girl and this girl likes my friend a lot... I am not a really friend of hers... but my friend is a friend of hers. Sometimes my friend tells me if I didn't talk to her and I tell him yes... and my friend says "I think that you say many rude things about me with them", is it true?.....or I told him that I like that particular song and my friend tells me "I know why you like that song because the singer looks like.....(the girl that I mentioned before) but my friend doesn't mention her name when my friend tells me that and I tell him do you like her? and he tells me that he don't know. Sometimes I tell him that he like to boast a bit but just joking as other friends do and one day he asked me if I'm jealous of him? beacuse I used to tell him that he boasts a bit. I told him no I am not jealous you are my best friend I don't have be jealous of you. I was hurt with that....and I told that I never told him that he was jealous of me because I know that he isn't and he told me " If I show you that I am jealous of you,would you dare to ask me if I am jealous" He told me that he asked me if I was jealous beacause I used to tell him that he boats and that he hurt with that but I told him that I was alwaqys joking......what ever, I had a bit argument with this and the girl I mentioned before rold him that I was not a really friend of him and told him not to talk to me ( she told him not to talk to me because she likes him a lot and she doesnt want him to talk to other people especailly with his friends because she wants him only with her and it' not only me that is doing this)nowadays my friend and she are really friends and like eachother beacuse they told me and and she told me that I am jealous of them because they are really friends.I think that she's jealous because she told him not to talk to me so that he could have her. As I told you before I am not that friend of this girl and this girl is trying her best so that his friends and they arent her really friends (like me) I am a friend of his but of hers not....she tries to tell him not to talk to them.....but the friends of him and hers she doesn't tell him not to talk to them because they are also he friends..... it means she tells him not to those people that are his friends but they arent hers (like me).....nowadays my friend doesnt talk to me anymore and when I see him he just doesnt even say goodbye.He is not talking to me because I think that he is influenced by this girl..... What can I do because I am not taliking to my friend beacuse of this girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010): He needs to stop being so paranoid that everything you say is something negative about him, and not listen to what other friends tell him about you. If he wants to judge you based on what other people say, he's not a good friend to be around. Also, in the same respect, you can't go around telling other people that he likes to boast alot and that he acts wierd(or funny in the bad sense), if you want him to trust you as a friend and remain your friend.
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