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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for a year, and I love him more than I ever thought was possible, he makes me extremely happy. However, for most of our relationship I've felt like I love him more than he loves me. I told him this and he said that I was worrying over nothing. I know he isn't good at expressing his emotions, unless he's pushed.He's also stopped randomly saying 'i love you.' He is still affectionate and loving towards me and if I tell him I love him he says it back.At this stage in our relationship I'd really like to know where we're headed. I'd love to settle down with him but I can't tell if that's what he wants, I don't know how to ask without scaring him. I was engaged in my previous relationship and my expartner was very open, and I always knew exactly where we were at. Am I expecting too much?I know he does love me, but I just feel so insecure and like he might leave me. Is this normal? Is it always the way that one partner loves the other more?
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reader, SillyB  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 Don't you think being open and being easily able to communicate is important in a relationship heading down the marriage track?? You need to sit him down and have a chat about this - the style of communication and what he wants. Better to know sooner than later.
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