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writes:My girlfriend and I broke up at the beginning of september. The reason we broke up was entirely my fault, and as much as I want her to forgive me. I dont think she will. Basically I got drunk the first week before school started, and I went online and sexted a girl. I was not even aloud to talk to her; my gf wouldn't let me talk to her because someone made rumors about us months ago. Somehow she hacked onto my computer and my Facebook and read the conversation while I was taking a shower. She broke up with me on the spot while I still had my towel on. I was in shock and didnt know what to say..That conversation happened 3 weeks before she found it. I didnt know we had the conversation.(probably would have deleted it if i knew..) The next day, after i Facebook friended her, I saw her posts on my wall and I was confused why we were friends on Facebook so i deleted her. The conversation that happened that night didnt get deleted too... and she found it and that was the first time i saw it....So i havent seen her in person in over a month She texts me everyday multiple times a day but I try to ignore her... I went home this past weekend to see her. She said she was feeling shitty, she said she missed me and she said I love you... I dont know if she ment this or was just sad... I only stayed home for about 20 hours. then i came back. During those 20 hours I saw her 3 different times. (you can skip this and read last two paragraphs if this is too long)First time she picked me up at night when I got home. We talked and after 3 minutes it turned into crying and her yelling at me.. Since we were in the car it was really awkward because there is a center counsel in between us so we couldnt touch each other or get close. It was like a barrier in between us. It was just really weird. So i asked her to come over. We went to my house and were watching TV. No touching at all. So i sneakily help her hand. She didnt get mad or pull away so I just kinda held it and rubbed her hand. She put her head on my chest and watched TV. I was really happy! She feel asleep for a couple minutes and woke up. She kinda freaked out and started saying things like " I shouldnt be here" she also said " this doesnt mean change anything we arent getting back together".... I never once asked her to get back together... She stormed out of my house and i followed. We talked or she yelled at me and the neighbors were outside and i didnt want to make a scene so I was like whatever leave. I thought I wasnt going to see her again...The next morning I woke up to 5 texts from her. "Can i see you, Can we have breakfast, Please".. I had breakfast with her. after she said want me to drop you off at home, and I said yes, and asked if she wanted to come in and she did. basically same thing as before. But we did cuddle and she had me put my arm around her. We layed together longer and It was so nice to just be with her. She fell asleep woke up freaked out and left! I was like cant you just sit her and talk. she said "okay!! WHAT DO YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT??!!" In a mean way.. I said idk just talk and she was like why and basically left mad.. She started to text me right when she left. I told her later that day I dont think we should talk any more. shes telling me we wont get back together and showing me all this affection. She wanted to be "friends" I told her I wont be her friend. I love her too much to just be friends with her. My train left in a couple hours. She asked can I come say goodbye so i said yes. I walked outside to say goodbye to her. She started to hold me and cry and say all this stuff to me. We just held each other and cried and we started to kiss and make out. Like we did when we were dateing... Right when we were making out her friend and my friend drove up. and made it really awkward. she freaked out because her friend saw her. and she left. Literally felt like a movie I was standing in the street and she took off!Not what I thought was going to happen at all, I dont understand this. Does her kissing me and when we cuddle mean anything? Seriously I havent herd of people breaking up and cuddling, holding each other and making out... Does this mean something. Is she just mad at me and saying we wont get bak together but maybe we will? Is this normal???? Im confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2011): Ok, so the way you've described her, you make her sound like she has some mental disorder. And i don't think thats the case.
She wants to be with you, because she loves you, but she can't forgive what you did. You didn't mention that you apologised? IT seems like you don't want to be with her, because she is the only one asking to meet.
Call her, and say you want to talk, and explain what happened and tell her how sorry you are and it won't happen again. She loves you, and will forgive you.
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