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Is this a big age gap??

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Question - (8 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *utiemax09 writes:

im 13 and there's this boy that i really like but he's 16. We hang out alot and we always enjoy each other's company. but i want to know is it a big age difference? and should we stay friends and don't be more than that?

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (8 July 2008):

scrazy agony aunt3 years is not that big of a deal, but at your age, I would suggest you and this boy just remain friends.

If it becomes something more, then that's great for you, just make sure nothing sexual develops between you two - this may frustrate him a bit, but you are far too young to be having sex, not mention underaged. So he could get in trouble.

For now, just focus on becoming good friends and see if anything develops from there.

xo

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A male reader, Peterk5699 United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2008):

Peterk5699 agony aunt3 years isn't a massive age gap but at 13 you're still too young for anything sexually and as has been said before - he may get sexually frustrated and move on.

If you are the good 2 then it'll be worth waiting until you're legal although, even though it's just a number you may not be so attracted to him when you're 16 and he's 19.

Your best bet would be to just stay friends.

Good luck!!

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A female reader, Laura Ellen United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2008):

just go for it

its only 3 years

what have you got too loose

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008):

3 years is quite insignificant (as you will find out when you get older). However, I agree with cupidguy as long as you don't have sexual activities in your relationship it should be fine. BUT, he may feel your too young and may get sexually frustrated, and you wouldn't be able to help in that perspective because he could be put away for it.

If you really like him and he likes you, I would jump for it, but if you think that the age gap is too much then i would perhaps stay friends as you're not yet matured.

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A male reader, ChiRaven United States +, writes (8 July 2008):

ChiRaven agony auntAt 13, three years is an enormous age gap. When you're 16, it will be practically meaningless. For now you'd do best to stay friends and not try to push it any further. But DO keep in touch. You'll both be glad of it once you've blossomed into the mature young lady you're about to become.

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