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41-50,
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writes:What does he want??? Ten years ago me and my friends hung around with a group of guys, one of them, Pete was always quite flirty with me and the attraction was mutual. Pete always had girlfriends so our freindship never developed. I started to date another guy who was friends with us all but he treated me terribly and cheated. One night i was out with my friends and found my boyfriend out with another girl, i was gutted and spent the night with my friend Pete(he was now single). We started dating once a week and slept together twice. Then my ex found out and stated how sorry he was .. i forgave him and to cut a long story short i gave him another chance. Pete seemed ok with this and we remained friends. I split with my ex for good 2 years ago after having two children together.. he was cheating again. Recently i have come into contact again with Pete after not seeing him for about 5 years. He came to my house and we had a really nice time, he moaned about his ex and i told him about mine but we seemed to be still close. The following week i saw him out and we virtually jumped on one another!! He again spent most of his night out with me and suggested i stayed over which after a few drinks i thought would be great. Then he disappeared.. sent me a text saying he didnt just want one thing and he would come over in the week. He came over as planned and again kissed me, stroked my arms, cuddled on sofa etc but stated that he left the club as he wasnt sure he could handle the history ie my ex and the 2 children. He didnt try at all to get me into bed but he was really affectionate all evening. He invited me over to his house this week but i am so confused as to his intentions. He is the first person after my ex i have feelings for and couldnt bare to be hurt again!! What should i do? Is he interested? Is there too much history? help!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
I think he is, but I think he's aware that you went back to your ex and might be worried that you'll do it again. You need to take this slowly with him so you can build up a decent relationship. Why don't you try talking to him and asking him what in particular it is that worries him? Just take your time. And don't let your ex come back either! He wasn't worthy of you! Lots of luck :)
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