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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and things are getting really bad. The first 6 months I was with him, I cheated on him numerous times. Now I have stopped but he insists on running my life. How do I get him to be the way he was when I first met him? Is there hope to get him to be less controlling? Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (11 February 2007):
 This is the main reason behind dating.
you can easily get to know someone and how they will react in different situations.
It sounds to me like this is just one of his problems that has finally reared its ugly head so don't expect it to go away. To rid yourself of this problem you may have to ultimately rid yourself of him.
There are lots of guys that will treat you like a queen and every woman deserves that.
My suggestion is, drop him and find your knight in shining armor. He is out there. Doc.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 He's probably controlling you because he feels he can't trust you. You need to sit him down and explain to him that you're not going to cheat on him again so he has to stop controlling you. If he doesn't you need to have a good think. If there's no trust in your relationship and you're feeling stifled by your boyfriend is there any future for you?
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