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writes: Is there hope to find the one?Is it rare to find a girl who values her viginity or is only willing to settle with the one special person?I'm don't want to go out with a chain of girls and I'm saving myself for the right girl, where and how do I meet my special girl that is waiting for me?Are there still people that wait for the special one, where are they?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2006): I'm proud to say i am one of those holding out for my special someone. I am not christian, i belong to no religion, but i belive that girls should value themselves and not give into the pressure of the world. There are people out there who are still like that, take me as proof, but it is getting harder and harder to find.
Don't pass up who have had "relations" before though, just because they did not wait does not mean they are not good people.
I wish you luck finding your special someone... 8]
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (27 May 2006):
 It is not rare to find people who value their virginity, who keep it pure and clean until marriage with that one special person. There are millions of them but they stick together usually. Out of luck you might find one lost in a crowd but there is power in numbers.
When you try to stand alone against the world you will fall sooner or later to the world's point of view. Those that value virtue, support each other in that choice and stick together.
You won't find them in a bar. They are in the churches that teach clean and pure living to their congregations. They are in the youth groups of these churches. These people are usually the ones that start the 'virgin' clubs in schools. Where they pledge their virginity until marriage.
This is where they are hiding, hundreds, to millions of people around the world live like this.
Good Luck on this Quest!
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reader, pri817 +, writes (27 May 2006):
 There is nothing wrong with valuing yourself and holding on to your virginity...There are others out there such as yourself...but don't close the door on women who have had experience...as we are all humans we tend to make mistakes...Don't be so judgemental and closeminded...The right one is waiting for you...,but she may not have everything your looking for...don't let her slip away because of your views
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): Well, unfortunately, sex can be a huge part of an intimate relationship. It's a nice idea that you keep your virginity to the one you will be with "until death to us part", but speaking from a progressive modern societal perspective, it's not realistic. It ISN'T realistic not because it cannot happen. It isn't realistic because many married couples find that they are sexually incompatible, and problems arise from that, and one thing leads to the next, and you find partners cheating on each other, then they get confused, etc, etc.
I hate to burst some people's dreamland bubbles, but love and sex does not necessarily work hand in hand. Based on traditional monogamy, it IS ideal and lawful to be with one partner - married and having sex with that one partner, but in reality, it isn't realistic. You can be totally in love with someone, but sex can be so bad that it may create problems emotionally AND physically.
I will confess to you, though love for me will always be #1, sex takes the #2 position. Yeah, I'm an idealist, but the world has 'taught' me to be realistic as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): hi- well thats me lol. i only want one person in my life. i am the same as u, waiting for that special someone. i am only 15 at the moment and never had a boyfriend. i only want one boyfriend in my life to lose my viginity and to fall in love wiv them and stay wiv them forever. i also definitly do not want a chain of boys and i am saving myself for that special person.write back on this page to me.and how old r u?ps - cos i dont really wanna be wiv someone that has had a chain of girlfriends. and i really really do value my viginity, it is so special to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): It is rare to find the special one if you don't date a few to find them! How are they supposed to know you're the one unless you date them first? I am lucky enough to have found mine, but you have to look dude, you cant just expect her to fall into your lap.
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