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writes: You allude to My heart is absolutely broken and I don't know words to describe my pain. I've become depressed about this situation with a friend, and so afraid that it's hopeless.A couple things going on.I love my friend in a way that I've never loved anyone else. Tell me that I'll feel this way about someone else all you want, but I know in my heart that I will never feel this way and I'll never fall in love again. He's been going through separation and divorce. I DID NOT have a hand in that or break up his family, this started before I ever met him.He seemed to have feelings for me at first, now just wants to be friends-I also cherish him dearly as a friend, and I'm so afraid that my feelings have ruined our friendship. it's torturing me to imagine we could have been close friends, and that there is a real possibility that he doesn't care about me as a friend.}Is it hopeless or could he ever love me back?
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (7 May 2013):
 Hi, give him space, a divorce is not easy no matter who is doing the divorcing as its a life shared with a person and you just dont forget that is ever happened.
He needs to figure it out for him self what he wants. Sometimes the absence of someone make us realise what the person really means to us that we take for granted.
For now stop all contact, its for your own good and it will also give him time. There are no guarantees in life, so you better of accepting him as not part of your life.
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