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Is there anyway I can change this?

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Question - (29 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm so upset right now...when I was 10 years old, my brothers molested me. I am now 18 years old. Everything was solved, they spent their time in jail. I'm upset because my one brother's parole officer came over (my other brother isn't in jail, just one of them is still) and said that I could NEVER HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH the one who is in jail. He gets out in May, so I have to move from my mom's house by this time and find my own apartment because my brother is going to live with her. I forgive my brothers, I love them and they made a mistake. I want to be able to see them and tell them this... what do I do? I live in Arizona, so is their anything I can do to change this? Thank you so much for the help. God bless.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

WHY would they do that to their OWN sister? :O :O :O

Yeah, there is something you can do. Ignore the parole officer. It's not like it's against the law for you to pursue them. He's just trying to protect you. The problem is: you might actually benefit from his advice.

I have no clue what kind of psychology it would take to rape your own sister, but I would not trust them. Maybe spending the last 7 or so years behind bars has made him bitter, and he might want to hurt you.

No offense, but that's pretty nuts.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

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i was 10 and one was 16, while the other was 17 :(

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