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writes:People always say not to put your personal life in your work life...well I did the exact opposite. So there are these two guys at work and they are brothers lets call the older one Anthony and the younger one Michael. I guess you can say I cheated but I wasn't either one of their girlfriend's. At first I was into Michael a lot and I fooled around with him and one night it went too far and that's when I realized that he was a jerk and I didn't want anything to go with him. As for his older brother, Anthony, I never saw him as more than a co-worker until he kissed me and we had our good times together. I slept with Anthony about 4 times and he brought up his younger brother, Michael, and he straight up told me that he knew about what we did and he got mad at me and did not want to see me anymore outside of work. But I was really getting attached and it hurts knowing that we wouldn't be more than friends, because he actually really cared for me. And I don't know how I can get him back. Is there anything I can do that will help me get Anthony back in my arms? What would ya'll do in my situation?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 June 2010):
Oh dear. You did make a bit of a mistake here. Two brothers and one at work. To be fair, you were't officially with either guy. But I'm afraid to say that to fool around with two brothers was a bad move to make. At some point, this was bound to happen. There is no getting him back. Michael will have seen that he's been betrayed by you and his own brother, and his brother Anthony will have probably been told to either sever contact with you or lose him. I suspect you've been sacrificed, as it were. To be honest, I'm not even sure that you should be with either of these guys. Both have used you, and one has betrayed his own brother. If I were you, I would really bow out quietly. Otherwise it will get around that you've played two brothers and your reputation will suffer because of it. Bow out quietly, and never again make the mistake of fooling around with members of the same family. Everyone gets hurt, and no one wins.
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