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writes: Is there any way you can tell your boyfriend loves you? I know i love my boyfriend and im pretty sure he loves me but is there any way you can tell for sure so im not just assuming it. thxx for any opinions!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): look, why did you ask that question??, this quest means that you are not sure he really loves you as you do, if you guess that he loves another girl so you can observe that from his looks to her or how he deals with her, well a good idea is to test him by making that girl in conversation to you both at the same time and you can obviously compare his looks to you and to her, and pretend to be normal in that situation, at that time you'd really know if he does love you truly or no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthxx for your responses. i thought my guy loved me...and i was right. i just wanted to make sure i wasnt just dreaming and think he was in love when actually he wasnt. thank you so much!!!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (17 June 2008):
Actions speak louder then words. One of the best pieces of advice I have ever heard was that you should pay attention to how a guy acts, not to what he says, as any guy can say "I love you", but only few special guys can actually act like they love you.
In my opinion, a guy loves you when:
He respects you, your opinions, values and beliefs.
He trusts you.
He lets you be yourself and he is himself around you too.
If ever you are upset or have a problem, he will listen and do all that he can to help and support you.
He accepts you for you.
He is willing to make commitments with you.
Hope this has helepd! :)
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reader, Sophia_Sweetheart  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Hey!
Well as Tremor mentioned, there is no love detector test, but there are a few common things you might see that show he loves you. Does he value your company? Does he listen to your problems and try to help? Does he care about you, and ask about your day? Does he appreciate you, even when you're not being touchy-feely? If yes to all of the above, then I'd say he pretty much loves you! But there's one sure way of finding out sweetheart, and that is asking him. I'm sure he'll tell you the truth. Or maybe you could tell him you love him, and see how he reacts? Good luck!
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reader, Tremor +, writes (17 June 2008):
 You mean besides being a mind reader?
There's no 'love detector' test like they have on the mobile phones that can automatically tell you whether he really loves you and how much - it should show through his words and actions. Have trust in your lad when he tells you he loves you. There shouldn't be any need for you to check.
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