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writes:I am having a problem in my relationship. I am 30 year old woman and my boyfriend is 65 years old. We get along great and have the best time together. Surprisingly we have a lot in common. He far from acts his age. The only problem we have is sex. I am a overly sexual person. He is the type that likes to play around a lot and he loves to look and have his hands on me. I love all of that. But I also enjoy rough romps in the sheets with lots of positions. One of the greatest parts of a sexual relationship with me is having my partner inside of me. I love the feeling of our bodies connecting and feeling the thrusting of us together. Maybe that sounds dumb to some of you but it is true. He would like the same things but as he has said the mind wants one thing but the body is only capable of so much at his age. I am trying to find out if there is any way to lower my sex drive. Everything I have found is to raise a womans drive. The man I am with has been with numerous woman in his life and says he has never encountered anyone with a drive as high as mine. I would like to find a way to try and surpress my sex drive so that this will no longer be a source of tension between us. Can anyone help me out with this?
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reader, lollybabe  +, writes (14 December 2009):
I am in the same leaque as you are but on the opposite, as I am the older and more active compare to my partner who is not so much interested in the real sex but playing around and in variety of positions. there is no need to lower your sexual activeness but encourage him to do more. an average man will loved to be on all night dealing with his partner in bed. perhaps you want to advice him to try viagra which might assist him.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): We do play around alot and toys are involved as well as the use of cialis. I love letting him just watch me please myself because he does enjoy it very much. I go along with everything he likes to do not because I feel I have to but I enjoy pleasing him. I just wish that I could turn down my sexual urges. It is causing stress between us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): One way to deal with it is for you to masturbate with him watching or for him to use sex toys on you like dildos. Or alternatively, he could try Viagra which will help make his penis hard. But try do most of the work so he can save his back. If he is really as wonderful as you say he is then compromise for him by letting him play with you, give you oral then finish you off with a dildo. One thing that does help though is being on the Pill. It gives you an even hormonal balance and helps control your sexual appetite. Enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): Well I dont really think you can lower it. Mine is very high also and not much I can do about it. Maybe you could take the lead and let him enjoy so he can experience what you want?
Love,
Lilly
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