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writes:Hi!I am 27, my ex-girlfriend is 24. We were together for 2 and a half years, one year we lived together and this past year was a long-distance relationship but we met on weekends. we broke up two months ago. Throughout the time I was with my girlfriend, I was seeing other women, not sleeping with them, but going out, fooling around and exchanging photographs. My girlfriend found these emails in my email inbox. I don't understand why I did these things but I really do want to be with her. She forgave me the first time. Is there anyway I can be with her?
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (3 December 2007):
She forgave you the 1st time? Does that mean you continued doing again? If so then chances are slim. Naturally women are more forgiving than men and when she gives you a second chance you better use it wisely. If you never did it again i would suggest you help her buil confidence in you by showing you've changed. Exactly what you do is your homework. If she still won't accept you back pick up the pieces and move on, she no longer trusts you.All the best.
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 That is a question for your ex girlfriend to answer. You have lost her trust and you have to prove yourself to her and gain try to gain that trust you once had. If she accpets you then your very lucky but if she doesnt then thats a consequence you must face. Accept her decision no matter what it may be. Learn from your mistakes.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 The only way is to build her trust in you up again which may take some time. Although you say nothing happened, that you did not sleep with these other woman, but does your ex know this for sure?. Effectively you have betrayed her trust, and if you truly love her and want her back then you have got to tell her. tell her how sorry you are, and how foolish you was to be carrying on exchanging Emails and photos with other woman. Maybe go out for a drink somewhere with her, and if that goes ok take her out to dinner somewhere. Take it nice and slow and don't expect instant forgiveness, for it may take sometime. Im sure she will eventually forgive you, and if she does i hope you have learnt a valuable lesson.
All the best
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