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writes:i like this girl and have always been since the past one year but nothing has happened bcoz she said that she didnt like me that way but only as a friend, so i didnt even bother asking her.....this is infact the first girl i have liked soooo much.She is very smart, pretty, fun to be with, too friendly and pumped up.....but guys dont go for her much as much as she wants to go out with them.She has quite a few crushes and i am not one of them definately. She goes for other good looking guys.This kind of bugs me even though im not bad.What annoys me the most is when she talks abt some other guy who she is supposed to be out with, in front of me. She knows i like her but she intentionally tries to eat me down with these things. When i ignore her or dont give alot of attention, she just finds ways to seek it....but sometimes doesnt give a crap and that makes me seem as nothing. She is really confusing, sometimes in a good mood and sometimes boring as hell. Although, she does consider me to be a good friend of hers, nothing more.I just dont know how to be around her, i gave up on her but i still have that thing for her inside of me. I wanr to be more than friends with this girlIs there any way i can pull her towards me?? any way??
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): Hi
I have been in the same position. If she is mean to you or your friends, leave her, no matter how much you like her, the liking will go away, but if she is nice, just try to keep close and help her and stick up for her, but don't go over the top.
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reader, N91 +, writes (17 May 2011):
 In the exact same situation my friend, it's an absolute horrible feeling.I'm afraid there's nothing that you can do really, as Denise said, cutting contact would be the best method, much easier said than done as I can't bring myself to do it as I like this girl too much and we're still really good friends.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (17 May 2011):
 Quite frankly, no there is not.
In one way she is toying with you, but she has also made it clear she doesn't see you as a potential boyfriend.
The best thing you can do is to cut contact and turn your attention elsewhere. If you keep on trying, she'll get completely turned off, and you'll just get even more frustrated.
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