A
female
age
30-35,
*atalie-ann
writes:hi, i recently told my friend i like her, and before the new gf came on the scene she seemed well into me, even when her gf was there she flirted with me, and one night after i told her how i felt she basically asked me to kissed her, i put it off becuase i knew it was wrong, but eventually gave into sweet temptation. for a few days things went cold, then picked up again the last time i seen her (this weekend) she was fairly touchy feely, not an awful lot, and she told me later into the night that she is in love with her girlfriend, but is into another girl, not me someone else. wel i said what would you do if i told you i loved you (yes stupid move) she said she'd say am sorry you feel that way.. afta that i asked her y she wudn't see me, she said becuase we are friends, then i said wel im not being funny but that doesn't change anything and dont let that bother you. ( her gf was in the same club just not present all this talkin) wel thats more or less it... the following day i rang her and she said she wasn't sure about her girlfriend becuase she is into this other girl not me by the way. i tryed to help her out.. advice etc.then today when i rang i told her about what i said to her what would you say if i told you i loved you, and she seems to think i mean it.. i like her alot but i told her i didnt mean it i was jus wondering.. im in a relationship aswell recent, and she said i was rebounding becuase i liked her but wasnt with her.. in so many words actually she said your with some else becuase your not with the person you want to be with. and now i am confused all i want to know is there any future for us? i seem to think sometimes there is and some times there isnt please help!! thank you
View related questions:
flirt Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, nologo  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Dating friends may quite often be risky.
In your case the feelings are not mutual.
"she told me later into the night that she is in love with her girlfriend, but is into another girl, not me someone else"
And this should be combined with "she said your with some else becuase your not with the person you want to be with".
Here you have different understanding of how each other feels, because you are too different from one another.
|
