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writes:Long story short, I went out with this girl for a month, and eventually she broke it off stating she liked me more as a friend and she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. A couple of months pass and we stay friends. And she starts behaving strange like complaining if i don't talk to her for a couple of days, and inviting me over to hers, despite knowing i still like her. She always maintained it was "friendly." So last night I confront her about it and she still stands on the fact she wants to be mates and doesn't want a boyfriend. She even stated there's probably no chance of us getting back together (despite saying she liked me still when she was drunk one week earlier.) Now here's where I need advice, we're both going to the same Uni next week, and she said she wants me to be her best friend at Uni and "until we are 70 years old." The problem is, I don't wanna be friends, because it just hurts too much and seeing her with someone else would just be the nail in the coffin. She knows it hurts to be her freind and she says it's just a part of life and hopes i can get over it, because she doen't want to hurt me. So should I stay friends or, just move on with my life?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Ditto as in "Double M", that is.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (8 September 2008):
Ditto.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Try to remember this throughout your life: Most women will end up hurting you. If you are normal, however, you cannot do without a woman at least occasionally. Just learn to walk away as easily as they will dump you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): a good startout comment when she says: "Lets just be friends" would be: "I'm sorry but if you box your friends like this I'm not sure I can be your friend" You don't say that you need her. You make her need you - (Reversed psykology) I've been studying this on the internet for quite some time and would recommend you to this site: http://www.websitetoolbox.com/tool/post/gettinggreatgirls/vpost?id=2692352
It is guaranteed to work if you do it right - give it a shot, its your best opportunity
best of luck - Michael
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