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writes:I'm 14 years old. About 2 years i met this girl. I immidiatly fell in love with her. after a year she went out with me. I was thrilled it was really the happiest day of my life. it was my first time i ever relle felt love for someone in such extremes. But after 2 months the relationship was over due to my obbesitiveness and for being and overall jerk. I regret doing anything i did to her. i regret it everyday. but after we broke up [officially] on my 14 birthday i was devastated was depressed for 3 days straight. she got a new boyfriend that day. since technically were werent officially going out but we were like relle together. it killed me. I knew it was my fault dont tell me it wasnt. i was a real jerk to her because of my insecurities and my lack of knowledge of relationships. and worst of all i lost the birthday card she gave me on my birthday [we broke up after i got home online cause i heard she might have been into someone else.] so anyway after being with her boyfriend for 7 months he broke up with her. [i was so jeleous those 7 months]. and shes been single for 3 months now and shes falling for someone else and i try to talk to her shes nice to me but not like when were dating she just thinks of me as a friend and i been waiting for her for 10 months overall and i still cant get over her. its not and option for me. and recently i have been dreaming about her everyday. so i want to know if theyre is any chance of her comming back to me and if so how can i get my love back? since i seriously will wait my life for her to come back!
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reader, AskRosie  +, writes (29 September 2008):
 Hi,
What you have to understand is that trust is an issue. If she thinks you're obsessive then she won't trust you. Get out there and have a few more relationships, that will give you a better idea of how to treat her. Find what your insecurities are and try to see what caused them and how you can sort them.
Don't use dirty underhand tactics to win her back, no girl would appreciate that. I don't want to give a straight answer to if you can get her back, but at least try to stay on friendly terms. That way you can show her that you don't have the insecurities.
I can understand that 7 months is a long time, but you need to find out whats best for you.
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