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writes:I been seeing this girl at college nearly everyday. We usually always do something afterwards, although simple things.. as friends.She invited me to go cinema with another 2 friends. I declined as i was busy but offered to go next week.Suprisingly she never went with her friends, could it been excuse just to get me out?How do I find out if she is interested? Worst thing would be to make a move and ruin it. She is shy type although she is fine with me.Both 22
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reader, Lilp22  +, writes (8 October 2012):
 Ask her
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (7 October 2012):
 The only way to find out if she is interested is to make a move. You also have to be more outspoken about what you like about her, but in a casual way. Sometimes interest has to be developped and inspired. Relying on signs is passive. If she turns down your interest I don't see how that's so ruining. If she doesn't want friendship either it can mean that she doesn't believe men and women can be friends, or you are not her type, and it is not an indicator of how you would do in future dating. It also means you can focus your attention on other girls and stop wasting time thinking.
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