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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a 4-year (gay) relationship and experience difficulties with our sex life. In general I am very happy; couldn't live without him. However, when it comes to sex I find myself preferring masturbation over sex...and it confuses me! I'm aware that a healthy sex life is important for a healthy relationship. It hasn't always been like this, only recently - I've tried to think of what has changed recently but I can't find answers. I don't mind pleasing him, which actually turns me on, but I just don't enjoy "joining in" and instead help myself afterwards. Masturbation seems to give me more pleasure... I've been reading up on it and came across reports and articles that some men go through stages like this. But mine doesn't seem to be a 'stage', and I'm not sure how to resolve it.HELP with advice. Has anyone a similar experience or any idea about..why? What should I do? I know it's not fair on him to keep going like this, so what'sThanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2012): If you talk to him about it maybe you can come up with something that will work for you both. Maybe he could help you masterbate. Just try some new things and maybe something new will rekindle your interest.
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