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female
age
41-50,
*ogichickk
writes:I am with a macho man. Who are they macho man?? Please shed some light. I am a very sensual woman and suffer greatly this "harsh" treatment. The only time he becomes attentive to my needs is when I make him feel jealous. Then instead of complaining or becoming angry with me, he turns to pleasing me. If he does not feel "threatened", he turns to his hobbies. We could spend a day together without making any eye contact. By the way, I asked him to name my needs and wants. He did. And then I asked him to give me an example of how to meet my needs. He did not know what to say. Am I supposed to give him answers and then patiently wait (sometimes several months at a time) to see if he "heard" me.I am not used to men like him. I am used to guys wanting to buy me flowers and do things for me... It seems that in his heart he does but he never gets around to it. For instance, he wanted to go to bed with me but instead started reading a manual and forgot about it...Is there a way to domasticate a macho man?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (18 October 2007):
If he keeps coming only to you, you have him domesticated. And yes, you keep telling him what you want, not so much that it's negging. Then occassionally he'll think it's his own idea and you'll win a victory. Surely you have some sexy clothes that will attract him to you. Just don't over do it or do it in public. Another victory.
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 I think it's worth asking how would you feel if someone tried to change you?
Why try and change him?
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