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writes:is there any answer to continuous rejection.guys don't like me no matter what i do .i need help please.can some one anwers my question its really up setting me i never had first boyfriend and let first kiss.guys just continuous hurt me and i did nothing to them.they call me names ,tell me i am not good enough and other girls are better then. i find these guys heartless and cold. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): guys just rejected without even knowing me.when do know me they don,t want to with me and they rotten to me i can figure it out?i am nice to them .i was out with one night
all he could do was boast about all his girlfriends and went off another girl you get the picture that one example there is tons more. he said j have had loads of girlfriends knowing i will i liked him,there,s bastard for you.he made feel stupid and now he has girlfriend after rejection me and i still no one.
its seem that guys can make any girl fancy them no problem and make them a girlfriend very quickly.yet i am able to do that .thats not fair
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 honestly, your information is lack. What are the "dos" you think that make guys stay away from you?
are you too accomodative?
are you rude?
are you too sweet?
are you out-of-dated fasion?
are you too busy with work?
it's not clear. So, there will be better if you provide more information :)
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reader, trotman68  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 It sounds to me that maybe you give them to much respect, I know it sounds silly but this does happen. If I was you, If it happens again dontgive them a reaction, just say to them, well go and see if they want you as its clear they dont or you would be with them. You have to get more confidence, I know its hard, but they only do it to hurt us and a man normally says things because they are hurting and they just deal with things in a different way.
I must admit when its done to you its a lot different, because in the end it pulls you down. Iwould say to men like that. "well looks like we are the same after all, you think you they are better than me, they think they are better than you","What have you got to offer them, you only got disrespect and nastiness, but dont let me stop you, as I cant wait to see you feeling hurt thou what people say about you", if I am that bad after giving you what I thought you was worth and get you putting me down, I dont want you now, so really ask yourself what chance do you have impressing them, when you cant impress even me". I know it hurts to say things back as its not your way, but the look of their faces are a picture and it makes them think twice about saying it again. please keep in touch.x
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