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writes:the other day i had a dream that me and girlfriend were just avout to have sex. then my girlfriends younger sister walks in. i get along with the younger sister in real life, but i dont fancy her or love ehr or anything, altho i have joked to my girlfriend that i do love her.back to the dream. the sister walks in and gets into the bed and chills with us. luckily we both ahd clothes on. nothing else happened. i told my girlfriend about the dreamanyway a few days later my girlfriend had the same dream. me and her were about to have sex when her younger sister walked in on us, but this time she walked out. my girlfriend said that we was both naked under the duvet.does anyone know why we both had these dreams and if there is any meaning behind them?? also my girlfrinds bedroom door doesnt have a lock... Reply to this Question
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 I am not sure why you had the first dream, whether it was fantasy, fear of getting caught or whatever. However, I believe that your girlfriend had the second dream due to the fact that you told her about the first. It is the power of suggestion. When we dream at night, it is often about things we have been thinking about during the day. You told her of the dream and it was 'on her mind' that night so she dreamed about it. Thats all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): Dreams are usually visions we have in our sleep that are caused by our emotions when we are conscious. Perhaps the both of you had this dream because it may be a worry the both of you have about getting caught when you both have sex. Dont get over your head. It doesnt mean it will happen. Try not to worry so much!
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (10 December 2007):
 We cannot control our thoughts and we cannot control our dreams. In a blink of eye so many thoughts come and pass through our minds which are not necessarily what we think. There are dreams that are mostly meaningless, and I wouldst give them any credence, in terms of Freudian psychology or in any other respect.
But...dreams may have meanings beyond the science of psychology. Sometimes they mean just the opposite of what you see.
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