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Is there a chance this could work for us again...?

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Question - (26 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *orn into writes:

Me and my ex husband were married 6 years and we ended it with a nasty divorce, for the first 5 months after we were enemies, after that we started to get close and closer. It's been almost 4 years and we have never slept together and we have become best friends. We have a 7 year old daughter we both spend a lot of time with. Sometimes me and him go out to eat or to the movies together and we are always there for each other. I love him with all my heart and he loves me but he tells me he is not ready to be in a real relationship with anyone but he does have a bunch of girls that he messes with. Should I move on or keep waiting???

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A female reader, KickRox United States +, writes (26 January 2009):

KickRox agony auntI think time will tell.. But don't wait for him! If he's messing around with all these gals then you go out and have some fun. Don't sit around and wait for him to decide if he's going to take you out tonight for dinner or a movie. Make yourself less available..guys like that!

In the end It's HIS Loss!

Take Care and Keep me posted!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009):

unless he wants to commit to you and YOU only..

no messing about with other women..tell him outright

if he is treating you badly dont feel you have to stay with him for the sake of your daughter. if that was the case;you would be better off without him.

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A female reader, xoxgabxox Canada +, writes (26 January 2009):

Move on!!! He has the best of all...someone that cares for him and girls on the side!! It's up to u

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