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*ayaCeline
writes:My boyfriend tells me that I'm good at oral and we both enjoy it. While we were cuddling after our first time, sharing little quirks and whatnot, he said that he basically only cums during vaginal sex. He's been with four or five other girls and I'm the only one that has been able to get him off once with a handjob.I want to get him off orally. I teased him that I would make it my goal and admittedly it's kind of an ego thing as well as curiosity because I've never gone down on a guy before him. I've tried everything I can think of and alternate between using just my hands and a combination of both. Every time though he'll stop me and say that he wants to switch to vaginal sex. I'm beginning to wonder if this is just him politely letting me know that it's not working.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (3 February 2011):
 I'm similar to your BF. I think oral feels better than vaginal sex in a lot of cases, but I have difficulty having an orgasm from it. It doesn't mean what you're doing isn't working. That's just how some of us are. To me it's very similar to many women who cannot achieve an orgasm from vaginal intercourse.
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reader, ramone34  +, writes (3 February 2011):
hi my 1st answer basically i am/was the same until i know it is totaly ok i could not allow myself to cum inside a girls mouth,or it will take forever,and she will have to be (no offence) a slut(in a good way) ie let me know how much she enjoys it and make alot of slurp noises as well as a bit of ball play,
but yes it takes longer for me then vaginial
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (3 February 2011):
 I and a lot of guys I know can't cum when getting a blow job. It's just too smooth. So don't worry about it. Use hands during bj and he might cun. Using just your mouth will not do the job
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Well I as a guy, my GF says she enjoys giving menorah sex and I like it but I my self haven't been able to come to a "orgasm" or to "cum" why? Well some men like my self require a lot of things to occur from dirty talking to moaning noises to maybe you your self master aging while giving oral sex. Tease him with "I'll give you vaginal sex if you _______" in some type of sexy or erotic way. Compelling enough my GF has been the first to manage to get me off with all that.
Give it a shot!!
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reader, CJH +, writes (3 February 2011):
 Were all different but as far as I know, most men dont climax very quickly during oral sex. Dont believe what you see in these porn films!
If youre desperate to make this happen, ask him to masturbate to the point on no return and then try performing oral on him.
Its honestly not unusual so you shouldnt worry that its down to you. Just enjoy sex and do what feels natural rather than concentrating on this one thing.
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