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writes: I have been with my guy for about a year and things were going good. One night I started to talk to his younger brother, who is my age. He lived in a different country though. He can here to live and i started to see him and talk to him more. When i first started talking to him on the computer i started to like him. Or thought i did. I just told myself it was because he acted and talked just like my boyfriend(his brother) but he seemed like he waz more intersted in me. When he came to live here i still told myself thats why i liked him. Is that why i am feeling these feelings for him because hes just like his brother but notices me more then my boyfriend? I like to be noticed and he notices me and talks to me more so could that be the reason? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2006): Yes - pretty insightful on your part, by the way. The solution is, of course, to remind your boyfriend that you like him to pay more attention to you. If you can sort that out, say by doing things together a little more often, or maybe even (pretending) to enjoy some of his interests, your attraction to his brother will probably die down.
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reader, eï? Sophie eï? +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Well, you probably are liking him because he reminds you alot like his brother(your b/f), but if hes notices you alot more this could make it even more of a reason that you like him. All of the reasons you have mentioned are probably why you have kinda fell for your b/f's brother. You will need to keep in mind he is your b/f's brother tho. Hope that helps xx
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