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writes: I've been dating M since the 9th of May this year. I've met him 10 times. His wife left him in Jan of this year but he says there has been no sexual relations for two years between them. He rings and texts me reguarly. We have got closer to each other and passionate but not had sexual relations yet.I've been used and hurt a few times since my husband and I separated last year, so I have little trust in men. I told M I want to go to Australia next year and he said he would love to come with me and it would give him something to look forward to. Then he suggested why don't we go somewhere cheaper and go this year? He has been to the Dominican R lots of times, so I said OK. I can only go in Oct as my children are on half term and my sister will look after them. I'm worried though as I have to find the money. It will probably cost about £400 for cheap deal, and I don't really know what his intentions are? His mother and father are moving into his marital home with him, to help him pay the mortgage. He was a bit afraid of telling me this in case I thought his intentions would never be that we move in together, so I'm a bit concerned there as well. He said last year he booked a holiday for his wife, upgraded it to give her the best and he was looking forward to just him and her spending time alone now their kids were grown up, and retiring early. Well I have 4 children, ages, 20, 17, 12,10. I don't want to push him into moving in together at all but at the same time I don't want to still be a part time lover in two years time if thats all he wants. Should I just talk to him or just back off and not give in to sex? I just don't want to get hurt. Thank you
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