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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:There is this girl who im very fond of and want very badly to ask her out, she goes to my gym and we do a group workout session with like 10 other people, i just started so ive only seen her like 5-6 times so far, shes kinda shy as am i so i havent had the courage to walk up to her and ask her out or for her number, for all i know she has a boyfriend already.Anyway, today i was sitting down waiting for class and putting on my shoes, when someone was walking past me to go to the room, i looked up and it was her and she immediatly smiled and said "hi, whats going on?" as she was walking by, i was stunned but managed to get a "Not too much, how about you?".Later as we were walking to our cars after class, i slowed down and asked her what her name was and introduced myself, i asked her how long shes been coming and etc.., i didnt want to ask for her number yet because this was our first convo and i felt it would be weird, so im going to wait til the next time i see her to ask. What do you guys think? would she smile at me and only me and ask whats going on if she wasnt atleast semi interested? ( i know if i didnt have any interest to a girl i wouldnt even look her way, let alone talk to her)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): you can't know unless you ask...and she's at least shown that she's willing to initiate contact/it's not completely in your head. my guess is that as long as you are relatively low key and respectful about it, she'll be flattered even if she is in a relationship. (don't act embarrassed if she is, or make it a big deal.) just go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): It depends on the situation. Get to know her better. You only know her from gym class, after all. See if she has a boyfriend.
You can exchange numbers after you get to know her better. Start a conversation with something you both have in common. Maybe find an article and introduce her to it. Or ask her out on a quick lunch. Then, ask for her number after lunch.
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