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writes:I met a girl a few months back and we really got on well and it seemed we were about to get together properly until she went back to her cheating ex.Anyway to cut a very long story short, she now happens to work with a female friend of mine and the other day my friend told me that she always brings me up into conversation and that on a night out she didn't want a bad photo taken of her in case I would happen to see it on a networking site.I've always thought that she only went back to her ex because he was her first and she was to afraid of taking a chance. I'm not being cocky but I am better looking than the guy she's with and a far nicer person(as if that matters).Anyway, I was wondering if any girls could tell me is the fact she brings me into conversation a good sign that she still likes me or do girls just like to know that a guy likes them to boost their ego? She shouldn't need an ego boost cos she is stunning but I dunno. Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): I'm not to good at these, "dose she like me questions" but I'll try to help if I can.
If your on somebodies mind, then yes they talk about you, especially if they know somebody who is contact with you. She's thinking about you, but what she's thinking I have no idea. Women hate to take bad pictures taken, it hurts their femininity to have somebody think they are ugly, especially somebody they know. To tell the truth you could be the postman or the milkman, and she still would want you to see a good picture. But the fact that she mentioned you directly, is also another good sign.
The woman you talk to is a friend you say. Well women friends like to please people, and it could be a case that she is blowing things out of proportion because she still knows you like this girl. She could also be a romantic, we women get like that. We love to match people up. If she believes that you and this girl would be perfect together, she will tell you both things to try to get you to think romantic things, and get you both together. This is true especially if she dislikes the other girls guy, and thinks he's not good enough for her. She could be interfering and trying to stir things up...
I don't know about boosting ego's, if (and she may not have) if she talks about you, then she is thinking about you and that's all that I can say. The only way to know if she's interested is to bypass the friend and give her a friendly call, about something stupid. Christmas and new year are coming up, the ideal opportunity to find a good excuse to call. If she is missing you and thinking about you, she won't jump and say she wants a date, but she should indicate that she liked hearing from you and give you an opening to call again.
If she's still with the guy be careful. Many women find it hard to be romantic with one guy whilst their in a relationship with somebody else. Go easily, use the season to send good wishes, or mention you saw her picture on-line, that will be a start.
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