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Is that what squirting's really like?

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Question - (19 November 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay I have read on this site about the whole 'squirting' business with women and sex but I decided to do some research which lead me to look at porn. (I know some people dislike porn for certain reasons etc. but I would like to point out my reason for this was not for pleasure but because I thought that the 'squirt' was just a little squirt however, I am glad I watched porn because I....well..was very very mistaken and quite shocked at what I found)

After all the hustle and bustle involved, it got to the end where the woman 'squirted' and then.. then she was trembling it honestly looked like she was having a fit! Now I'm sorry but to me it really looked like she was just simply urinating.

I really am quite shocked it just looked like the woman was absolutely terrified she even collapsed to the floor.

Basically my question is.. is this what squirting is all about? Engaging in sexual activity and then squirting your 'load' everywhere (because it was extremely uncontrollable) and then becoming extremely fragile and vulnerable due to collapsing whilst trembling??

Oh and one last thing.. I've read that you can't really learn to squirt, you either can or you cannot, I was just simply curious.

Thanks for all answers and sorry it's quite lengthy :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010):

A women I was having sex with (she was on top) once got very very wet, and a clearer and a bit lighter liquid then usually. She was on top. It's definitely not urine, had no smell, and evaportated quickly. It trickled around my thighs and reached the sofa and mad a big damp spot which disappeared later when it dried. This particular woman never orgasmed with me (like with contractions) - unless I missed it. And she wasnt very loud. That evening she seemed horny and I was very passive and she took my clothes off.

Anyway, I believe it happens, but dont count on porn, you never know whether it's real or not and I think the when the stuff gushes out like crazy and the woman almost collapses, then it's fake, or she is some kind of freak or under the influence of drugs. It's just too dramatic and huge to be real. But again, I believe it does happen, but cant help much, as I am myself in a search for more info about the circumstances and triggers, and that's why I'm here.

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A female reader, gazellegirl United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2008):

Hi - squirting is most definitely real and pretty much any woman can learn to do it.

I had so much fun with female ejaculation and squirting that I even got a friend to put together a website with loads of free information and instructions on how to learn to squirt. You can find it here:

http://www.Learn-To-Squirt.com

Really it's all totally free info and I know loads of people who've learned to squirt now using the info and resources you'll find there. Get going!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008):

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Okay thanks very much for all your answers you have helped :)

Although im not sure if the person was called cytheria it didn't mention anything it was just an eight minute clip of loads or women squirting at different times really it wasn't just a man and woman or 2 women or whatever, it was different people, different occasions, just all put into an 8 minute clip.

Anyway, thank you all for your help :)

x

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A male reader, mof United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2008):

I have to disagree with the comment that "women do not squirt".

My former partner 'squirted' each time I penetrated her. She did not urinate, neither of us had any curiosity regarding 'water sports'.

It is something that can not be faked, nor forced. It is 'real'. Some people will experience it, some will not.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008):

Cytheria? I'll have to google that one. I thought Flower Tucci was the one to watch!

It's not fake, it's definitely real and I've seen it happen with my own eyes. You either have the ability to do it or you don't. The more intense the orgasm, the more powerful is the squirt. It comes out of the urethra but it's definitely not urine. I suppose you could equate it to a man ejaculating. It comes out of the same orifice, but that's definitely not urine either.

If you don't squirt, don't worry - you're normal.

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (19 November 2008):

Teacake agony auntOOPS I thought you were a boy.

but its fake and that's what it comes down to

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (19 November 2008):

Teacake agony auntStop watching porn for one thing. It will ruin your real sex life if you think that's what sex is really like.

Squirting happens ONLY in porn. It is special effects and is NOT real. Women have no fluids that can squirt other than urine. Maybe the porn people inject something in the girls to make urine look white? Or its done some other way. But it is fake. Porn will make real sex seem not good enough because girls and women just do not do the thing that happens in porn. ITs all fake, its all make believe. It gives men the wrong idea about sex and about what women really like.

And what women really like is a man that loves her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008):

I think you were looking at Cytheria. She is known in the porn world as the Squirt Queen.

She by far squirts the most fluid. Everytime she squirts, she shakes and trembles as though she had a real orgasm. I've watched enough of her videos to believe that she is not urinating but indeed ejaculating "some" type if fluid at a very high rate and pressure. I've noticed when she squirts a lot of fluid that she shakes and trembles more than when she squirts a little bit. When she squirts the really large volumes if fluid is when she has her biggest orgasms.

Not all women behave in this manner. A woman I was once with squirter but she didn't shake and tremble like that. When she did cum, she would cum and squirt only with the first orgasm. Any subsequent orgasm after that was "dry". But she had an orgasm nonetheless.

I think female orgasms are all different and trying to tie them down as being the same will get us in trouble. Some women scream, some are quiet. Some squirt, some don't. Some shake after orgasm (I've seen this in a woman I was with in college), some don't. They're all different.

But squirting is real. I've seen it, tasted it, and smelled it and I can tell you that it is NOT urine. So...

Hope this helps

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