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writes:I met this girl almost 3 years ago n when we 1st met it was great..we fell in love and i couldnt be happier..we were together for a few months and because of work i had to move away.. we drifted apart and all the feelings i had were becoming a distant memory. Then outa the blue she contacted me saying she loved me n wanted me back. we live 26 miles apart. but i thought id give it a go. I saw her once n all the feelings I had for her came flooding back. aftr this meeting i stopped seeing her coz it hurt to much. She contacted me last week for the 1st time in ages.. she was realy sad and is pregnat....she said that she had made a massive misstake not staying with me and that she wanted to meet up. I went to meet her n she had her m8 with her so we couldnt talk.. I really do love her but im unsure of her feelings....since i meet her she hasnt rang or txt'd i dunno what 2 do is she waiting for me to contact her or has she realised that she dont want me?can i make it work???
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reader, rcn  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 First, don't stop seeing someone because of the pain. If she loved you and you loved her, that's reason to see her. If you stop than you always wonder what could have been, or if you had taken that extra chance, what could have become.
When meeting with her, wanting to discuss you're relationship with her, why would she bring someone else with her, that must have been a very uncomfortable experience.
Being unsure of her feelings, it sounds like she is unsure of them as well. Maybe unsure is not as good of word as confused. She has a baby coming, made a mistake not staying with you, she may be feeling guilty for her choices as well.
You should contact her, but not as someone who is in love. Do it as a friend. Tell her you haven't heard from her in a while, ask her how she's been doing, and how her pregnancy is going. Through her answers or what she may say will give you the answer your looking for.
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