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writes:This might be an unusual question but I have been having some fun with this one lady I am attracted to where she works I don't work there only visit when passing by the area.It has to do with the parking arrangement in the parking lot but no parking is private for you are free to park wherever you please.Anyway, not long ago when this all started and not knowing this ladies car I had parked in front of her but her car was in the parking space to the left in front of mine. When I had come out a few hours later her car was parked next to mine driver side to my driver side like she had pulled up to park next to mine.From that time on I would park next to her then she would park where I would usually park as to send a message that either she was using the parking arrangment as a creative way to flirt with me or wanting to get closer to me.Funny as this might sound I am getting a kick out of it. Day before yesterday I had parked as far as I could from the other cars and parked next to her car. Then yesterday she parked in my spot so I parked in her spot where she parked the day before.I don't think I am reading to much in to this but I feel there is a message behind this musical chairs parking lol and it's a way for her to flirt and send me a message without saying it.One time I tested it she parked in another area of the parking lot where I never park and I didn't bother parking where she was she parked there a couple times but I didn't and continued to avoid the area.Then she started parking where I usually park and this continues to go on but we never talk about it as if it's our little secret lol! of flirting with each other but this is a lady who knows I am into her but have neverf asked her out nor to I know if she is available. What do you think do I have an over active mind or is there a hidden message being sent?When I park next to hers I am sending the message I am flirting with you and I want to get closer to you without saying it to build sexual tension if you will and find it romantic in my opinion.
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reader, Weramazing  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 You're welcome let us know how it goes. :0) lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK thanks I'll give that a try.
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reader, Weramazing +, writes (23 February 2010):
Well this is quite strange lol. I would think that she is definitely playing a game with you but whether or not she is flirting I'm not too sure. What I would do is talk to her when you next see her just make convo about the weather or work or whatever and then from her reaction and return of conversation it should give you an idea of whether she she is into you to. if you know for sure she is ask her if she would be interested in meeting outside of the parking lot. Don't worry about being turnt down it isn't a big deal but obviously make convo before you ask and make sure it seems like she is also in to you.
Good luck.
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