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Is she using him till I get older?

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Question - (24 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my ex gf is showing me signs that she loves me but dosent want to say it.she shows me her brest and underwear after she dumped me.she was going to but on a sexy maid outfit,give me a lap dance and kiss me on her b day in her room.she told some of her friends y she dumped me and told them not to tell me.i have a friend the person she is seeing he dosent like her.i think she is using him intel i am older to get married.is this a sign that is good?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009):

First thing, at your age buddy, you should know about spelling and punctuation! :) It'll make it a lot easier for people to understand what on earth you're going on about when you actually take the time to write it out properly.

From what I can tell, and who can be sure, she DUMPED YOU. I don't know how you can interpret that as a sign she loves you, and wants to get married. What gave you this idea? Did she ever mention marriage or love to you? Dating someone else until you are old enough to marry seems pretty bizarre. Even if it could possibly be true, is that the kind of girl you want to marry?

Wash your hands of this. If she dumped you, leave it. You're young. Don't know why you have to be thinking of marriage now anyway.

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (24 March 2009):

tux agony auntMy question is to ask you, why do you still want to be with her? I personally would stay away from girls who are playing these kind of mindgames. That is what these are.. she wants attention and loves when you give it to her.. That's all I can see that is going on.

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