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writes:What do I do. I am seeing a girl casually but I have noticed another girl through work who is absoutly stunning. I really think that looks wise she is the perfect girl. I finally spoke to her last week and she seems, classy, well dressed and is always polite and chatty to me. We now say hi or wave to each other every time we see one another.The problem is that I am still seeing someone and I also think this other girl is out of my league. I wouldn’t say I’m a bad looking guy but this girl is something else, really special and I can’t stop thinking about her.I know I’d blow it with her if I asked her out and was still in a relationship because she would find out and not think too much of me. How can I approach her and suggest we get together, and also find out if she has a boyfriend. I’m scared of rejection even though I think shes too good for me.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 It is sad, but sometimes a woman can indeed be too much for a man. By that, let's understand that she is used to a sort of life you can't give her, and to a sort of relationships and connections you just can't have. Like she lives in a different world: you're the plumber and her family's been rich for centuries and now happens to be the President's niece. In those instances, maybe it's wise not to take any initiative, because even if you work something out you still need to worry about how to overcome the different backgrounds in every day life. Cinderella may have married the Prince (in a fairy tale), but I wonder if the Princess would have married Cinderello.
I'm not sure this is your case. I think you should be sure of where you stand, first of all. Maybe you have some insecurities.
The real thing here is that you're seeing someone else. If you're having these kind of thoughts about Supposedly Out of Your League, it's best if you break up with In Your Stadium.
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reader, lilly123 +, writes (1 August 2008):
 First of all you have to end it with the other girl before you try anything with the one from work because its not fair to her and the girl from work might not give you a chance whilst your seeing someone. Be confident ou bearly no this woman for all you no you could be too good for her. Just get straght to the point dont play game with her and ask if you can take her out and see how it all goes.CONFIDENT!
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