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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:HelloLong story short: We are 24. My girlfriend was in a 5 year relationship with an abusive drunk. We always liked each other and hooked up right away after she broke up with him. It's been rocky, but after 5 months and confrontation and telling her to take her space if she needs it, she has apparently stopped talking to her ex and started giving me the attention I want. Texting, calling, telling me she misses me, etc. She is not an openly emotional person though and most of our relationship is based on past friendship but also very passionate and often aggressive sex. She recently went to a wedding by herself out of state, where she kept in touch regularly. However, she would like to joke there is a guy that has fallen in love with her. This is fine, because Im in a band, and joke that I have groupies. She did mention something though that concerned me....She said "Can you believe what happened, I almost cant say. One of the brides mates had a threesome with the best man (married, wife was asleep in her hotel room) and another guy whose girlfriend was not at the wedding". In the past, whenever Ive cheated or done something stupid, to relieve the guilt and feel the waters, I would tell my other girlfriends stories from a third person perspective. Is she using the same tact or am I making mountains out of mole hills?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): I am paranoid and mistrusting, I know that. But its all very confusing. She puts up walls and still casually speaks to her ex-bf. Telling me she missed me and making plenty of plans for the near future, but still texting her ex and making plans with him this weekend
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