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writes:ok i use to date this girl we went out for about three months everything was going ok then we broke up...it all started going bad when she told me she kissed anotha boy and me i count that as cheating...but i didnt breake up with her i stayed with her because i was so in love with her and i still am but she dumped me she said she did because thats what her heart felt...so after we broke up we became friends with benefits,then friends,then enemies,then lovers again,then all of a sudden we became enemies again and stop talking for a while.But now she has a boyfriend and were friends again but i wanna know is she still in love with me the reason i asked is becuase one night she called me and we talked for some hours then just as we where getting off the phone i said bye and she didnt wanna hang up i already knew what was wrong since i use to go with her so i said I love you and she said I love you too and then she asked me how did i know she wanted me to say I love you and i replied i just know.Meanwhile the next morning she text me and she said she was crying that night because she knew she had a boyfriend and she didnt mean to say it but she meant it and im also curious because the song on her myspace is called Need you bad by Jazmine Sullivan i read the lyrics and i dont think shes talking about her boyfriend but thats me go read the lyrics and tell me what you think...but we are friends now and still talk she says im crazy in a good way or wild or what ever i just wanna know Is she still in love with me?
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reader, theOC +, writes (24 June 2008):
Why are you so caught up with this person? You're reading into the lines way too deep. I believe it's a natural reaction for a young person to respond with "I love you, too" when someone says "I love you." So in essence, she is not in love with you.
You're only 16-17 and don't know what love is. The feeling that you have for her and vice versa is not love, but lust. The first few months in a relationship are the best part of the relationship. It's generally called the "honeymoon stage" and the feelings that you feel during that stage, many would call love.
However, you need to understand that you both are still young and will need many years before you both understand what love is. You still have your full lives ahead of you. Stop worrying about this person as I am sure you have other issues to worry about. You're a becoming a young man and you should take a step back and reflect on what the whole situation is about. I wish the best of luck to you. If you have any more questions, just let me know.
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reader, iluvbrian +, writes (24 June 2008):
well, it sounds to me like she still loves you i mean she said it didnt she? and yes, i did listen to the lyrics and she totally wouldnt be saying that to her bf. she probably does but maybe you should confront her about it. acutally ask her.
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