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writes:hey,as you see i`m 14,i`v met a girl she also 14,i`v never had this in my life before,i added her on a chat program on my cell an we would chat for 7 hours stright! till 3am,an yeah i really like her, when i`m around her i bite my nails, an she weear sexy stuff, she tells me i makes her smile more then anyone else,she also tells me as a friend that she not alowd to have a boyfriend,an that she is a flirt,yet she tells me she has a boyfriends an me an her have alot in common, alot of our friends think we are made for eachother an make up lies so we think one likes the other,wich is anoyying but how do i know if she does like me? if she on the chat program she chats to me an nobody else not even her "boyfriend"she says i always make her smile,an make her day,we have lost track how manythings we have in common, an yeha i dont know, last time i told a friend wich is a girl that i like her it messed up our friendship, so yeah please help an tell me ways to findout how to know if she likes me or not :)thanks :)
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 Well you like each other... ask her on a date be sweet to her and have fun. don't tell your friends about her because when your in a proper relationship you wont have much time for them anyway she will become your best friend. on the other hand she could be looking for a way out from her BF she may want to jump ships. but be carefull i find it funny if she has a boyfriend but cant spend time with you. Finally, i dont mean to make you feel paranoid or anything, but be sure she's sincere to you chat and phone can mean she's just playin you. Plus how do you know her BF is not their laughing with her. just be cautious at this stage.Ask her to meet you somwhere where you both can be together say at a shopping centre and find out if she's for real.
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 I think it's clear that she does, mate. You say she has a boyfriend, though. That'll be what messes things up, not your feelings for her. I suggest you tell her how you feel, see if she feels the same way, but then let her handle her boyfriend. Dont ask her out, else all this other guy will see is some jerk muscling in on his relationship. I reccomend you let her end it first, then quietly start up together.If, however, she does not want to go out with you, just shrug it off and continue as normal. "Good things come to those who wait**."**Not guaranteed, but worth a try. It worked for me :)
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