A
male
age
30-35,
*aewood
writes:There is this girl i love who is my friend, i told her i liked her and wanted her to be my gf but she said no that she is not ready for a relationship,but she still allows me to hold her hands,looks me in the eyes and smiles at me always. But she has too many male friends,i asked her and she said they were are family friends and childhood friends. She once told me she would never forget me. I dont know if she loves me or just fooling me. Reply to this Question
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reader, petina1  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 She sounds like a flirt. She told you she doesnt want to be your girlfriend. She knows you want to be her boyfriend and is encouraging you with her flirtatious behaviour. You must stop letting her hold hands and get closer because its not doing you any favours. If one day she does decide to be your girlfriend, will it upset you about all the other 'friends' she has. You sound like a little collection of boys she has going on. One day she will be stung by someone and will not flirt anymore and send the wrong signals out to vunerable boys like you.
hope this helps.
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