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writes:I discovered that my girlfriend is dating a man whom she says is very nice but now I find out from her that he's been married three times and thinks that he must be a nice enough guy if three women want to marry him. Am I wrong , or is she in denial of why he has also been divorced three times?
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (23 May 2010):
How can YOUR girl friend be dating someone beside you?
I would suspect that her line of reasoning has been warped to allow the facts to support the conclusion that she wants to find. Few divorced people are ever going to tell you "yeah, I was immature and ruined the marriage"... what you're likely to hear is "she was crazy/Lazy/a cheating whore..." (pick one).
If her logic was sound, she should be pursing happily married men w/ good careers who are still in their first marrages- they've never been divorced!
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 Don't be too quick to assume anything. Although it does not look good indeed, we don't know the reasons these marriages didn't work out. Keep in mind that it takes 2 people to make a marriage work.......If she is happy then be happy for her but if I were her I would definitely talk to him and ask him what happened and why..........don't assume he's to blame and he is the monster.
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