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*olidus
writes:A few weeks ago I saw this amazingly gorgeous girl come into where I worked and I didn't get her number, but another dude who works there did. He told me that he intends to make her his girlfriend, therefore I'm not allowed to talk to her if I see her again...yeah, sure, okay. The thing is he's moved back to school (which is six hours away) How likely is it that this dude made this incredible gorgeous girl his g/f before he moved away? He only had like 3-4 days after getting her number before he had to leave! Anyway, yeah, I'm hoping and praying that this stunning girl comes back into the store so I can chat her up and also get her number. Technically, I saw her first anyway and he threw me to the lions (pushed me in front of an Impatient customer) so while I was distracted he got her number! I would have talked to her but I felt 2 guys chatting her up in the same minute might have been a bit much! I've thought about her smile everyday since! I'm telling you this girl was 1 in a million gorgeous, I think I heard Etta James music playing when I laid eyes on her. It was one of those love at first sight kind of deals...So, ladies, I guess my question is...How often after giving a guy your phone number would you say he becomes your boyfriend? I mean, girls give guys there numbers all the time, doesn't mean she'll be his girlfriend, right? Should I even bother trying my luck with her should she come in again? Reply to this Question
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reader, Solidus +, writes (21 August 2008):
Solidus is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey, Ask oldersister, thanks for the uplifting response. Who said I don't consider her a person? She seemed really sweet and down to earth and I just wanted to get to know her better.
I'm was just wondering if I should talk to her or not if I see her again. I mean, my co-worker we'll call him "Roger" in so many words forbid me from talking to her under the grounds that he considers her his girl already or something. I thought about that for a little while then it dawned on me how very optimistic that was on his part. Also, who is he to tell me what girl I can talk to? He doesn't own her so why shouldn't I be allowed to speak to her?
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