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Is she getting bored with me?

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Question - (12 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I feel like shit... I'm 15 and my girlfrend is 16. When we started going out it was perfect but now I'm really mad... I'm a nice sweet guy, totally not a jerk and a really good and caring boyfriend... I love her and I thought she did tooo... but ever since last week she's been treating me like crap and taking advantage of me.

She never smiles or tries to converse much with me like she's trying to avoid me... I don't know if I did some thing???? Tthe only time she smiles and is happy is when we make out. I don't know what to do any more.

Is she just getting bored of me? because I certainly don't feel the love coming back to me any more.. she doesn't show her affection to me any more and I hate it!!! No emotion whatsoever!!! She never lets me know what's on her mind, when I ask she just says "nothing".

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A female reader, Mrs. Mom United States +, writes (13 March 2009):

Mrs. Mom agony auntAsk her what's up. If she tells you nothing is wrong, then tell her yes there is. You don't treat me the same way as you used to.

If she's not prepared to do anything to make you feel better about the relationship. You're young, and this is the time in your life when you're supposed to try things out.

People do get tired of their sweethearts. That's when it's time to leave and find someone else.

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A male reader, Guitarist  United Kingdom +, writes (12 March 2009):

Guitarist  agony auntwelcome to the world of girls minds. i know every girl will argue this and you wont like this but its over. girls want security above anything else, they can 'love' you, you can be excellent in bed etc but if you're not bringing bread to the table they start having doubts. love just isn't strong enough for girls as it is for guys.

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A female reader, lgonzal2 United States +, writes (12 March 2009):

lgonzal2 agony auntYou need to ask her this. Communicatio is key in any relationship. If you do not ask her whatever is wrong is going to just get worse. Also do little things for her to make her feel special. Like buy her flowers or give her a massage.

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