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writes: I have been friends with a girl from school for a couple of years now but she has suddenly become a lot closer. she often asks me questions that are a little inappropriate for a friend to ask, they're something a girlfriend or boyfriend would ask. Also some of the comments are quite sexual and my other friends have even commented saying she shouldn't be asking me the things she is asking. I've been looking out for her doing this with other people but she isn't. In the middle of class she will come back and sit with us just to talk to me, sometimes when my other friends start talking to me she'll get annoyed because my attention isn't focused on her.My friends have said there is a possibility of her flirting with me as she is a lesbian, but I just don't know. I was just wondering if anyone could give me any advice on what to do about it, or perhaps tell me why she's doing it? Is she flirting or are her questions just becoming a little too inappropriate and she hasn't realised? Any help is appreciated, thank you for you time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your advice, I will do that.
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reader, KjS  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 Maybe your friend is confused, or there is a chance that your friend could be a lesbian and may not realise what she is doing. She is probably wondering if you would do the same or maybe she has feelings for you that she cannot explain. I suggest that you have a quiet word with her.. Ask her if there is something that she needs to tell you.. And if she says no.. You could ask her if she's noticed any of the things she has been doing to you and nobody else. You could try asking other friends to watch how she acts towards you and them and other friends as well and get them to say how different she acts and maybe they could they and talk to her.. See how it goes hun :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): It sounds like she may be halfway between liking you as a friend and liking you slightly more. She probably knows you're not interested, as it doesn't sound like you're giving her any signals, but I would try to make it clear just in case. Maybe tell her there's a guy you're interested in, so that she'll understand you don't like her in that way. I wouldn't be rude and try to avoid her when she tries to hang out with you and your friends, though, as that usually has a way of coming back to bite you. Hope that helped!
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